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January 2, 2024

The Impact of Startup Team Dynamics on Success

By · Founder and CEO coach · 70 founders and CEOs coached across 15 countries

TL;DR: Two startups with equally strong people can perform completely differently. The difference is almost always in how those people work together. Healthy teams disagree openly and move on quickly. Unhealthy teams either avoid disagreement or make it personal. The fastest way to read your own team is to watch what happens in the ten minutes after a hard meeting. And the dynamic that sinks the most startups sits at the very top, between the founders.

Two startups with equally strong individual talent can perform completely differently, and the difference is almost always in the dynamics between people, not the people themselves.

What the research says about team dynamics

Google studied this question in Project Aristotle, a large internal research project on 180 of its teams. Its conclusion, which I quote in The Whole Human Leader, was that what really mattered was less about who is on the team, and more about how the team worked together. Psychological safety came out as the number one factor. Teams with high psychological safety were rated as effective twice as often.

Research on collective intelligence from MIT and Carnegie Mellon points the same way. A team's performance was not predicted by the average or the highest individual intelligence in the room. It was predicted by things like social sensitivity and how evenly people took turns speaking.

For a startup that matters a great deal. You cannot out-hire a bad dynamic. You can only fix it.

Healthy and unhealthy startup team dynamics

Teams with healthy dynamics disagree in the room, decide, and move on. People leave the meeting committed even when they lost the argument.

Unhealthy dynamics come in two forms. Some teams avoid disagreement entirely, which produces decisions nobody believes in. Others turn disagreement personal, which produces decisions nobody can move past. Both cost speed and morale, in different ways.

A simple test: watch what happens in the ten minutes after a hard meeting. Does the conversation end, or does it carry on in side channels and quiet resentment? That gap tells you more about your team's health than any engagement survey.

The dynamic that matters most: the founders

When startups fail from internal problems, the founder relationship is usually at the centre. Companies rarely die of strategy. They die of two people who stopped telling each other the truth eighteen months ago and quietly built an organisation around the gap. Meetings scheduled to avoid a conversation. Teams split so the two of them never have to agree.

I have worked on this under real time pressure. Two founders, eight years into their company, had not spoken to each other for two months by the time they called me. We ran weekly sessions with each of them alone and weekly sessions with both. We started by writing down what each of them was actually responsible for, and how decisions got made between them.

Then each wrote the other a contract: here is what you need to do, otherwise I cannot continue. It took several rounds before either of them could sign anything. It worked. What made it work was the process, which forced two people to say out loud what they had been avoiding for a long time. The document was the smaller part.

If this is where your team is, read when co-founders stop talking and how to fix a co-founder relationship.

How founders can improve team dynamics

Make disagreement part of the meeting. Ask for the strongest objection before you decide. When someone gives it, thank them in front of the others.

Even out the airtime. If the same two people do most of the talking, the team is only using two brains. Go round the table on big decisions.

Name the side channels. If you know a decision is being reargued in private, say so openly and bring it back into the room.

Fix the top first. Teams copy the relationship between the founders and the leadership team. If the people at the top avoid each other, everyone below learns to do the same.

Make roles explicit. A lot of friction is two people who each think they own the same decision. Write down who decides what.

How startup teams differ from teams in established companies

In a startup, the team is small, the stakes are high and the roles change every few months. Camaraderie is often stronger, because people chose a risk together. The same closeness makes hard conversations harder, because friendships and jobs overlap. That is why dynamics that would be a nuisance in a large company can end a startup.

Common questions

What are startup team dynamics?
The patterns in how a startup's people communicate, disagree, decide and trust each other. They decide how well the team's talent turns into results.

Why do startups fail from internal problems?
Most often because of conflict or avoidance between founders or senior leaders that nobody addresses. The friction spreads into the organisation and slows every decision.

How do I know if my team's dynamics are unhealthy?
Look for decisions reargued after meetings, people who never disagree with you, and conversations that happen in side channels instead of the room.

Can a coach help with team dynamics?
Yes, especially at the top. Much of my work is with founders and leadership teams on exactly this. More in what a founder coach does.

The short version

Team dynamics are the mechanism that turns talent into results. Start with the relationship at the top, and watch the ten minutes after every hard meeting. If you want help diagnosing and fixing yours, that is the work I do in 1-on-1 executive coaching, or with both founders in relationship coaching for founders.

About the author

Peter Sorgenfrei built 6 companies over 15 years. In February 2020 he burned out completely, and he rebuilt from there. Since then he has coached 70 founders and CEOs across 15 countries. His book, The Whole Human Leader, is published by Wiley.

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