Can children make you a better professional?

I have several friends who have decided that it is not for them. And yes, they have found their life partner or their spouse, and they are very happy and fulfilled.

Years ago I wasn't sure either if having children was for me. Perhaps it was a life stage thing, perhaps it was a partner thing, but I actually think it was neither. I just wasn't there mentally. Couldn't imagine what it would be like and probably did not understand/appreciate the 'benefits'.

I now have a nine-year-old.

As most parents (if not all) will agree: life without your child(ren) is unimaginable, they bring you the most joy, happiness, anxiety, and emotion you will ever experience. They make you feel more alive than anything else we can do as humans.

Something not often (and for good sound reason) discussed around having children is how they make you a better professional.

They teach you patience (which is a trait without which we end up in trouble in business), they force you to focus (…), they foster commitment, and they remind you by the minute what matters in life and give you balance and perspective like no book or seminar ever could.

Because of Theo, I believe I am and will be more successful in my career than I would have been without him. Nice benefit in addition to having rediscovered what it means to be alive.

If you want to build a business you can lead without losing the family part of your life, the Founder + Parent Reset is where I'd start.