You’re Not Hearing the Truth Anymore
Your company’s growing.
Your team is loyal.
Your meetings are efficient.
And yet, you’re increasingly out of the loop.
Not because people are hiding things.
But because they’ve stopped telling you the truth.
1. Silence is not alignment
The absence of feedback doesn’t mean everything’s fine.
It often means your team has stopped raising the real issues.
Ask:
- When was the last time someone challenged your thinking?
- How often do you hear, “I don’t agree”?
If the answer is “not lately,” that’s the problem.
2. Culture doesn’t scale if candor doesn’t
At 10 people, everyone speaks up.
At 50, silence becomes strategy.
The fastest way to kill momentum? A team that nods but never pushes.
You haven’t lost your culture.
You’ve just stopped reinforcing the permission to speak.
3. You need structured dissent
Start here:
- Ask leaders to bring one disagreement to every check-in
- Celebrate when someone challenges your assumptions
- Normalize feedback up, not just down
Alignment without candor is just politeness.
And politeness doesn’t build great companies.
Ask yourself:
What am I doing, or not doing, that makes people hesitate to be honest with me?


