October 16, 2025

Delegation ≠ Leverage Until You Transfer This

You’re delegating.
You’ve hired strong people.
You’ve stepped out of the weeds.

So why does everything still run through you?

This is the hidden trap of delegation:
You’re not stuck in a bottleneck.
You’re stuck in a thinking loop.

Here’s what I see in every “delegating” founder:

✓ Clear responsibilities
✓ Experienced hires
✓ Defined processes
✓ Reduced decision load

And still the work funnels back to you.
Not because your team lacks execution power.
But because they don’t share your mental model.

1. You're delegating the wrong thing

You can hand off the work.
You can trust their judgment.
You can remove yourself entirely.

And still, they’ll ping you to “check their thinking.”
→ Because they don’t just need your answers.

They need your way of solving problems.

2. Tasks aren’t the bottleneck, thinking is

What actually slows the team down:

  • Instructions without context
  • Corrections on approach, not outcome
  • Solutions without the “why”

These aren’t delegation issues.
They’re model transfer issues.

3. Transfer thinking, not just tasks

Here’s what transformed my own leadership:

→ Share your analysis process
→ Explain your trade-off logic
→ Make your assumptions visible

Give them the why, not just the what.

4. Show how you think in real-time

Walk through decisions live.
Expose your past mistakes.
Narrate your reasoning out loud.

→ Clarity doesn’t come from clean handoffs.

It comes from cognitive visibility.

5. Teach frameworks, not fixes

Instead of saying: “Here’s what I would do…”

Say: “Here’s how I think about this kind of problem…”

→ Build durable thinking.
→ Build independent leaders.

Delegation becomes leverage when your team starts to think like owners, not just act like executors.

Ask yourself:​
What mental model are you keeping to yourself right now that’s keeping you stuck in every decision?